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About Me

So this is the blog “About Me” page that I never wanted to write. I am a wife to my husband of 44 years, Chris, and the mother of four adult children, who thankfully, support themselves in meaningful careers. I am also now a part of a very exclusive, special-invitation-only parent group that will define the rest of my life. 

 

I truly love being a wife and mother more than anything on this earth. It is exactly who I was made to be. Second to my family, teaching hundreds of voice students has been the greatest joy throughout my adult life. It is the reason I have offered you a song link for each blog. Music is essential for this journey. And on this journey, as each child with a disability crosses my path, my ear bends towards heaven to find hope. I know I was born to use my voice to tell their stories and strengthen our communities.

 

This blog will introduce you to our fifth child, Robert, and reveal to you two women named Juli. Crazy, isn’t it? My “About Me” page has two lives--one before our Robert was born, and one after. You will also meet my family members who have accepted both versions of me and have chosen to share their stories. You may recognize yourself or someone you know as you read. 

 

My desire for you is that you will meet me with all of my imperfections, inadequacies, and faults and find hope for your life. Please allow me to show you how our Robert was placed divinely “In Our Arms.” Whether you are a member of this special group or share these writings with a friend or family member who is, I would like to know your story, too. One day, I will ask you to join me in this story.

 

Can we create together a place where stories of hope move us to courageously touch another life? I know we can. That soon coming day will showcase our collective voices and actions on our “About Us” page. 

 

God bless you as you hear my voice. 

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Juli's Family

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Dr. James "Chris" Henderson

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Hello. I am Chris, also known as Dr. James H. Henderson II. I am husband to Juli, and father of Jessica, Eliotte Nicole, James III, Victoria, and Robert (deceased). I am also proud to be father-in-law to Ryan, Eliotte’s husband. Juli allows me to think that I had something to do with the incredible accomplishments of our children, but I know better.

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I am currently a Critical Care Intensivist at CHRISTUS Santa Rosa (CSR) Westover Hills Hospital in San Antonio, Texas, while serving as a Member of the South Texas Regional Advisory Council Pandemic Medical Operations Workgroup. I am Board Certified in Critical Care, Pulmonary Medicine, Internal Medicine, and Sleep Medicine. I presently serve as President of Medical Staff at CHRISTUS Santa Rosa Hospitals, President of CSR Family Health Center, and a member of the Board of Directors of the Family Health Center. Additionally, I am Director of Inpatient Services for the program and Chairman of its Clinical Competency Committee. I also serve as an Adjunct Assistant Professor for the University of Texas Health Science Center at San Antonio (UTHSCSA) Department of Family and Community Medicine. I entered my present position after more than 26 years of service in the United States Air Force Medical Corps, retiring in July 2011 at the rank of Colonel.

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Along with Juli, I have the honor of sharing the joys and challenges of families struggling with life unexpected.

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Robert Christopher

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Robert had a mitochondrial disorder that involved a variety of body systems including the brain and muscles (causing all types of seizures, poor stamina, muscle weakness, lack of muscle tone), and the nervous system (heat intolerance, excessive sweating). His symptoms became especially severe during ordinary infections, often with ordinary exercise, and with excessive heat or humidity. Later in his life, genetic testing revealed that he also had a gene alteration that predisposed him to seizures and developmental disorders. Robert’s disease was progressive, and he was eventually diagnosed with cerebral palsy, autism, and intellectual and developmental disabilities (I/DD). Attempts to control his hundreds of seizures would, sometimes, mean spending days in the hospital.

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Robert’s wonderful medical team, under the direction of pediatric neurologist Dr. Karen Keough, treated Robert for most of his life. His treatments included every avenue possible to lessen his seizures and regression. He was prescribed almost every new epileptic medicine available, many years combining three to five anticonvulsants at a time just to keep him seizure free for a few hours at a time. Robert had a g-tube, corpus callosotomy (brain surgery), VNS (vagal nerve stimulator), and remained on the Ketogenic Diet for several months at a time throughout his lifetime. His language was very sparse, but he found ways to communicate through gestures.

 

Mitochondrial disease has no apparent therapies because energy cannot be therapeutically applied in a direct way. Robert was treated with vitamin therapy, nutrition support, and developmental/educational stimulation. We worked hard to prevent infections, and monitored him constantly for potential, treatable complications.

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His school and all therapies (speech, occupational, physical, behavioral) became a homebound priority. He had skilled nursing care for most of each day, and he required an enclosed Posey bed to keep him safe at night because of his seizure activity. Protective medical helmets were also necessary and helpful, as his drop seizures increased. As a teenager, he became wheelchair bound, but managed to keep one to two iPads working on his wheelchair tray at all times!

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Robert passed away at age 18. A few months before he passed, my husband, Robert and I underwent genetic testing. Dr. Keough and Robert’s geneticist, Dr. James Gibson, informed us that Robert’s mitochondrial disease stemmed from a genetic diagnosis of CHD2 Epileptic Encephalopathy. This detailed diagnosis was based on the testing we did before Robert passed, but was completed only after his death. Prior to this diagnosis, Dr. Keough simply called it "Robert's disease" because his disease was extremely rare.

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We are forever grateful that his doctors recommended that the blood work take place at that time in his life, as it would not have been possible a few months later. This diagnosis was crucial information for our other children who were concerned that such a genetic condition could be passed down through to their families. Thankfully, this is not the case.

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During his short life, Robert was most known for his big, toothy smile, and his all-embracing hugs. His capacity to give and receive love was deeply beyond measure.

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Jessica, Eliotte Nicole & Ryan,
James, and Victoria

In Our Arms

Supporting Caregivers, Championing Disabilities
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